Wednesday, January 8, 2025

A House & Petsit from Hell

 

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This is an original interview with a seasoned house sitter who had for the first time a negative experience. Showing what can happen will help other house sitters to be more vigilant and check pet/house owners before committing to a house sit and spending money for travel:

Important for House/Pet Sitters:

- Talk online via Skype, Facetime, or any video/audio calling service

- Insist to see the pet (s), the house or apartment, and the garden

- Ask for details of what this house sit requires and what your chores are

- Insist on a comprehensive checklist for your house sit - as soon as possible 

This list will help both sides not to forget any details.


The House Sit From Hell !!! 


"After being a house sitter for over 4 years and dozens of always marvelous 5-star reviews - not only on HouseSittersCanada, but also MindMyHouse,  Several pet owners called me for the second or third time to take care of their dogs, cats, and house. And with many of them, I became good friends.


But this time was the house sit from hell!  

And these people have the chuzpe to turn around after I wrote a complaint in November already to the agency about the dangerous, filthy, “hoarding” place in the woods of Vancouver Island and they set up a complaining “review”, full of lies. 


I regret to have not left the place immediately once I entered the house, but it would have been bad for them, as they had already lost another sitter (who might have been less trusty than I was), and it would have cost them a lot of money to cancel their flight and hotel.  I also had invested time and money to travel to Vancouver Island as I live in Eastern Canada. 


Brad & Julie in Sooke should not be allowed to advertise for house sitters!

Please keep this house sit from your site! I don’t want other house sitters to come into the same unfortunate situation. 



THIS WAS NOT A HOUSE SIT AT ALL 

It is a dangerous (bears!) and a dirty farmhand job including CLEANING OUT SHIT from chicken coops, and washing & selling eggs, and contacting potential customers. They should better advertise at WOOF, Farmhand, or at a “Working Holiday” site!  I regret to have for six weeks all this work done for them for FREE. 


I was also told by them - over hours - what former house sitters made wrong and how bad these house sitters were. Made me wonder what they would say about me... Well, here it is.



DIRTY AND MESSY

I have never, ever been in my life in such a messed up place!  It was like entering a garbage collection place. Please see the photos I took. It was just disgusting!  The fridge was full to the brim with expired and moldy food, food from 2021, 2022, and 2023.


No space for my own items and terribly dirty shelves that had not been cleaned for ages.  And this was only one of FIVE fridges they had in and outside the house. I had to clean this fridge thoroughly to place my own food in.  A storm resulted in a power outage for 23 hours.  After that, I had to clean and sort the whole fridge again. Also, no space in the cupboards to have a place for my own food.


There was no garbage can, I was instructed to “sneak” garbage into the neighbor's garbage can, which resulted in an ear-full from one of the neighbors.  Flying to Mexico, but not being able to purchase a garbage can…. Now I know WHY there was no online meeting: to avoid showing me their house. I certainly would have declined the house sit. 


As I wrote before, I feel like I am in a TV show, you know when people die and a company has to come and clean the place out. It was hard to walk through the rooms, everything was dirty and dusty and the fridge was extremely stinky.  What also was totally stinky was the bedroom I got. It took me a whole week of airing, buying, and using a purifier to get the smell out of the room. 


DRUNKEN HOUSE OWNER

The house was ice-cold, especially as I came from a vacation in Italy. Julie gave me one of her hundreds of jackets that are spread all over the house. Thanks for that.  


But her DRUNKEN husband Brad asked me in an aggressive tone twice “what’s wrong with you?”.  Due to this offensive behavior, I should have packed my stuff and should have left the house right away.  As a house sitter who works for free for pet owners, it is unacceptable to be bothered by people under the influence!





BEARS AT NIGHT

I never was told about bears in the vicinity before coming to Sooke on Vancouver Island!  Only hours before they left, Julie casually mentioned that a bear came once and they shooed it away by banging pots and pans.  This is criminal!  To let a house sitter come without warning in advance.  This is a rural area, and it is just too dangerous to go out when bears are around. 


Also: the municipal rules forbid food or garbage outside.  They had TWO large fridges with outdated food in the open. These fridges were in NO WAY locked or secured. - an invitation for wild bears to come and play havoc. 


It is impudence to email me to sleep with an open window (directly next to my bed) in order to hear when bears are coming in the middle of the night, and then shoo them away.  And also to demand that I carry extremely heavy items to secure their fridges.  I certainly kept the emails in which Julie demanded this from me.


If they don’t obey to local laws, then they should at least properly secure their items to avoid damage by large bears. It was December, the temps were around 0, and they asked me to sleep with an open window??? 


I was invited to come and take care of their (friendly and affectionate) cat, feed the fish, and feed the 20+ chicken and lock them in the coop in the late afternoon. Just hours before they left for their vacation, I was told to scratch and clean the shit from the chicken coop regularly.  No single word about that before. 


I DID NOT GET THE INTERNET PASSWORD

Previously to this house sit I asked several times for a checklist in order to clear any questions, but did not get anything. When I arrived there was a checklist, but it was not complete, and didn’t mention the chicken scoop work or the IT password. 






Brad said it was complicated, and he typed it into my laptop.  When the “bomb cyclone” happened, the electricity went off and on.  I could not go online anymore. So I called them and Julie gave me reluctantly the password (which was not complicated at all).


COMMUNICATION

To blame me not to use a smartphone is insolence. I have this stated clearly on my HouseSitters site, and also mentioned to them that my laptop is active day and night. 


Plus they had provided me with 2 phones in their kitchen. The phone I have at home doesn’t work outside the province.  And with email and 2 phones blaming me in their review for bad communication is effrontery!  I have kept ALL the emails we exchanged while they were away and can prove it. I contacted them by email twice a week and even send them photos of the cat and the chickens."

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Once more: Be vigilant and check the offer for a house sit, 

using the above-mentioned checklist before committing!





Tuesday, December 31, 2024

SUCCESSFUL PUBLISHING NEWSLETTER JANUARY 2025




Content of this newsletter

  • WRITING CONTESTS
  • WRITING/PUBLISHING TIPS
  • WRITERS RESIDENCIES, FELLOWSHIPS, & GRANTS
  • FREELANCE WRITING


Dear readers, writers, and publishers:  

It’s hard to believe that December has come and gone already. Hopefully, life has been good for all of you this past month. All the very best for the next 365 days and beyond!  I hope you enjoyed the holidays and are eager to tackle the upcoming writing and publishing season with new books.

 

  • WRITING CONTESTS


Rumpus Prize for Poetry, Fiction, and Creative Nonfiction

Submit previously unpublished poetry, short stories, and/or creative nonfiction.  Prizes (6 total, 2 in each genre) $1,000 first-place prize and publication in three genres: poetry, fiction, and creative nonfiction.  Honorable mentions receive $200 and publication in each of the three genres.   Deadline March 2

$20 Entry Fee.  https://therumpus.net/the-rumpus-prize/


Disquiet Literary Prize

Submissions are now open for the Disquiet Literary Prize!  Fiction, nonfiction, and poetry winners will be published.  One grand prize winner will receive tuition, lodging, and travel stipend to attend.  Disquiet summer literary program in Lisbon. Cash prize available in lieu of travel.  Reading fee: $15.   Deadline: Jan 6

https://disquietinternational.org/the-program/contests-scholarships/the-disquiet-prize/


 


  • WRITING/PUBLISHING TIPS


Lots of useful articles that are helpful for writing and publishing. 

Read on:


Use this free AI detector to check up to 5,000 words

https://writer.com/ai-content-detector/

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How to Write Successful Queries for Any Genre of Writing:  

What elements go into a query letter and 39 real examples of query letters 

that have worked for writers with commentary from their agents

https://www.writersdigest.com/publishing-insights/how-to-write-successful-queries-for-any-genre-of-writing

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Tips to writing consistently

Cross-post to gain a diverse readership

https://link.medium.com/n4mTrKcojIb

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Book Publishing and the Media are Misaligned 

https://lnkd.in/dmF6YMgV

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How ProWritingAid Can Save You Money When Self-Editing Your Book

https://writingandwellness.com/2024/01/15/how-prowritingaid-can-save-you-money-when-self-editing-your-book/

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9 Differences Between US and UK English for Writers

Some tips on how to convert between the two

https://www.writersdigest.com/write-better-fiction/differences-between-us-and-uk-english-for-writers


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  • WRITERS RESIDENCIES, FELLOWSHIPS, & GRANTS


Weinberg Artist-in-Residence Fellowship

This fellowship is for writers, journalists, filmmakers, visual and performing artists who wish to use the Newberry’s collection to further their creative work. Preference is given to individuals working on projects that focus on social justice or reform. Stipend: $3,000/month. Length: 1 month. Applicants must be working outside of traditional academic settings. Deadline January 3

https://www.newberry.org/research/artists-in-residence/artists-in-residence-fellowship

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Outpost Fellows in Residence

The Outpost Foundation’s flagship program is a residency that offers two BIPOC writers from the United States and Latin America a $4,000 award as well as complimentary travel, lodging, and meals to spend the month of September cultivating a generative writing community in the mountains of Southern Vermont.  Deadline January 10    

https://www.outposttheresidency.org/




Indian Arts Research Center Artist-in-Residence Fellowship
The IARC offers a monthly stipend, housing, studio space, a supplies allowance, full access to the IARC collections, and travel reimbursement to and from SAR. Fellowships are intended to give artists time to explore new avenues of creativity, grapple with new ideas that can advance their work, and strengthen their existing talents. The fellowships support diverse creative disciplines, including sculpture, performance, basketry, painting, printmaking, digital art, mixed media, photography, pottery, writing, and film and video.  Deadline January 15

https://sarweb.org/iarc/native-american-artist-fellowships/

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  • FREELANCE WRITING

Why I am propagating Freelance Writing so much? 

If you can get into magazines or newspapers you will earn way more than with writing books.  Consider this:

Each year about a half million new books come from traditional publishers and about two million more are self-published.  Penguin Random House alone publishes more than 15,000 titles under 300 imprints.  Every new book will be covered by millions of other books …


How many sources of income do you have?


Other Sources of Income:

  • Non-Fiction writing (traditional and self-published)
  • Fiction (Self-published fiction novels in print and audio)
  • Speaking gigs
  • On-Demand Courses about creativity and writing
  • Online group membership
  • Online live classes
  • In-person workshops
  • Prints of my art


The Globe and Mail

The newspaper’s Saturday Opinion section, which regularly publishes some of the leading writers in the world, is always looking for pitches: Anything from 700-word columns to 7,000-word reported essays. Pitch Mark Ledley at mmedley@globeandmail.com. Rates are generally $300-$400 for a 750-word op-ed. More for longer pieces. 

https://www.theglobeandmail.com

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The Huffpost

HuffPost publishes freelancer work across a wide range of topics. Sections for which we are currently accepting pitches are listed on this web page. Pitches should include a working headline, two to three paragraphs that outline why you think the story matters, with some indication of how you plan to report and tell the story (e.g., sources, key characters or narrative events).  Also, you can send just a short bio, your rates and your portfolio to photos@huffpost.com, and if our interests align, we’ll get back to you when assignments become available.  Pays at least 10-20 cents/word.

https://www.freedomwithwriting.com/freedom/uncategorized/15-calls-for-pitches-directly-from-editors-10/

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Mother Jones

Mother Jones is a nonprofit investigative news organization that delivers bold and original multi-platform reporting on the urgent issues of our time, from democracy protection and climate change to extremism and beyond. Our rates are based on a writer’s experience, our experience with the writer, article type, and the difficulty of the reporting and editing required. For print, rates start at $1.75 per word. For online, at $0.75 a word. We pay 1/3 of the fee upon submission of a first draft, and the rest as soon as possible after publication.

https://www.motherjones.com/contribute/writer-guidelines/

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The Revelator
The Revelator, a news and ideas initiative of the Center for Biological Diversity, provides editorially independent reporting, analysis, and stories at the intersection of politics, conservation, art, culture, endangered species, climate change, economics, and the future of wild species, wild places, and the planet.  Actively seeking both expert commentaries and freelance journalism.  Stories usually run 1,000-1,400 words and pay $300-$500.

https://therevelator.org/about/

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Sound Fields
We are interested in pitches for short essays (1500-2000 words) that bring us provocative ideas and surprising insights into the intersection of audio documentary practice and the idea of the archive.  Original essay pitches should be a maximum of 400 words.  Final essays will be 1500-2000 words or less. If your pitch is approved, you’ll be matched with an editorial board member who will provide two rounds of editorial feedback on your piece. $400 honorarium. Q and As/Conversations (written/transcribed) pitches should be a maximum of 400 words.  Proposed Interviewees/conversation partners must already have agreed to participate. $200 honorarium.

https://www.soundfields.org/submissions

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Positive News
Fed up with bad news but want to stay informed?  Positive News is a magazine for good journalism about the good things that are happening. Stories of social and environmental progress.  Quality, independent reporting with a focus on solutions.  Impactful photography and stunning visual design.  Boosts your wellbeing and helps you engage in the world

They like to receive pitches for news or features that showcase the best examples of progress and possibility anywhere in the world.  Pay is usually around 30p/word.  Send your ideas to editor-in-chief, Lucy Purdy, at editorial@positive.news.

https://www.positive.news/contact-us/

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PublicSource
Pays $400 to $1,000. See a chart on the website for what they pay for each type of writing.  PublicSource is Pittsburgh’s home for impactful journalism and community-driven storytelling.  Through in-depth reporting and analysis alongside diverse perspectives, our nonprofit, nonpartisan news organization serves and engages the people of Southwestern Pennsylvania.  We strive to empower our audience with the knowledge and understanding needed to make informed decisions and drive positive change, on a personal level and within broader systems.

https://www.publicsource.org/publicsource-policies-for-contributor-freelance-journalist/ 

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Chicken Soup - Funny Stories

We are looking for stories about something that happened to you or someone close to you, the kind of stories that get you and your listeners laughing when you tell them. Rat out your spouse. Share that funny thing your kid said. Tell us that hilarious thing that happened when your relatives did... yeah, that thing. We want to hear about your family, your friends, your colleagues... and most importantly, that embarrassing thing that you did. Laughing at ourselves is the best! Pays $250 for up to 1,200 words written in first person, along with ten copies of the book that contains the story.  Deadline April 30.   http://www.chickensoup.com 


Create something out of the content you consume.  Do you enjoy reading?  Write some book reviews for your blog or to share on your social media pages.

Now is the time to take a leap and go for it. Carry a notebook everywhere!  Ideas will come to you, and inspiration will strike in the most unlikely places.  Happy New Year! 

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